Swingers Australia http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au Australia's Sexiest Swingers Site Thu, 07 Sep 2017 08:41:28 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.8.2 94682081 Mature Swingers Get More Action http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/mature-swingers/ Thu, 07 Sep 2017 08:41:28 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3963 We all know that swingers come in all different shapes, sizes and colours, but the one factor that many people seem to have the least amount of tolerance for is age. If a couple has set an upper limit then they very rarely consider meeting people above that age bracket, even if an older couple [...]

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Mature Swingers

We all know that swingers come in all different shapes, sizes and colours, but the one factor that many people seem to have the least amount of tolerance for is age. If a couple has set an upper limit then they very rarely consider meeting people above that age bracket, even if an older couple is quite easily more attractive and in better condition than those much younger. The preconceived assumption is that people of a certain age are too old regardless.

Obviously what is perceived as ‘too old’ is going to be relative. For couples in their 20s, it’s understandable to find it disconcerting to meet swingers the same age as their parents, yet couples in their 30s and 40s still set their preference for people who are the same age or younger. Is there anything really that weird about shagging people ten or fifteen years older than you? It would seems so with most couples firmly keeping their sights below fifty regardless.

In spite of that mentality, a good percentage of swinging couples are over the age of fifty and they are having a ball. If anything, they are having way more fun than the younger, self-conscious set. We’ll take a look at some reasons why mature swingers are decidedly having better sex and more often.

They do not give one

After more than a certain number of decades on this planet, you stop caring about what other people think. In term of swinging, this is actually a fantastic mindset. A lot of people take swinging too personally and allow themselves to get caught up in worrying about how they are perceived. Mature swingers know they’re sexy so if you’re prejudiced towards thinking otherwise simply due to age, then as far as they’re concerned, that’s your problem.

They have time and money

Most mature swingers have older children who often don’t live with them. Many are also well established in their career so money isn’t as big a consideration as couples in their 30s who are just starting a family. With any luck, the family home is probably close to paid off as well and after downsizing, there’s spare coin to spend on sexy vacations around the world. If you wonder why the sexy swingers resorts around the world are full of mature swingers, then this answers your question!

They have fewer (if any) inhibitions

Even if a mature swinger couple is new to the scene, they are usually more relaxed about meeting strangers compared to their younger counterparts. They’ve had more overall life experience so they know that worse things can happen than a first swingers date going awry. Older couples are generally more sociable and know how to carry a conversation well, even if they’re dealing with a boring duo. They’re confident and with nothing to lose, they’re simply happy to take a punt and just meet people!

They are in their sexual prime

For many mature swingers, 50s and beyond is the time to get wild. They want good sex and they know how to get it. They’re no longer obsessed with the superficial as it’s more important to find people who are on the same page sexually. A hot body is still a turn on but the right sexy attitude is what really gets them off. Mature swingers are more about little less talk and a whole lot more action.

Want to meet some sexy mature swingers tonight? Find them here!

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Aussie Swingers Sex Stories – Public Sex http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/aussie-swingers-sex-stories-public-sex/ Thu, 07 Sep 2017 07:01:40 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3962 Aussie Swingers Sex Stories – Public Sex We’re well aware that the folks over at RedHotPie Australia are super sexy but we had no idea just how kinky they are! If you’ve never ventured into the Sex Stories section of the site then do yourself a favour and check it out. There are literally hundreds of stories [...]

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Aussie Swingers Sex Stories – Public Sex

We’re well aware that the folks over at RedHotPie Australia are super sexy but we had no idea just how kinky they are! If you’ve never ventured into the Sex Stories section of the site then do yourself a favour and check it out. There are literally hundreds of stories and let me tell you right now, they are HOT! Do not read these sizzling stories at work though because you’ll definitely get a little hot under the collar. Every now and then we’ll check in to Sex Stories and grab snippets from some of our favourite stories that deal with certain erotic themes to help you find the best of the best. This time around we’re looking at the top 5 Aussie swingers sex stories about very naughty public sex.

Aussie Swingers Sex Stories - Public Sex

Aussie Swingers Sex Stories – Public Sex

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Hey Swingers. Stop Chatting, Start Meeting! http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/swingers/ Thu, 24 Aug 2017 12:53:08 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3954 My husband and I went out to a mini swingers social in the city the other night. It was organised by a couple who we met some time ago from RedHotPie and had hoped to catch up with again. Unfortunately we’re all so busy that it can take months to organise a night out. This [...]

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My husband and I went out to a mini swingers social in the city the other night. It was organised by a couple who we met some time ago from RedHotPie and had hoped to catch up with again. Unfortunately we’re all so busy that it can take months to organise a night out. This drinks night was a great idea!

SwingersOther than us, eight other couples turned up which was just perfect. The right amount of people to get some great conversation going. All the couples were also on RedHotPie and it turned out we had exchanged messages with a few of them. We apologised profusely to each other for not making a date happen.

Over the course of the night, we all talked about how hard it was to actually meet people. The two newbie couples in our group said they were willing and able but they could never find a couple who would or could actually set a time to meet them. The rest of us were more experienced with online dating but still agreed. Why was it so hard to meet other swingers other than at clubs and parties?

Swingers dating sites make it easy for us to find people but as the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. So what can we do to convert all those sexy contacts into even sexier dates?

Make the effort

Firstly, the drinks night alone answered the above question. Effort. If that one couple didn’t set aside some time from their busy schedule and make the effort the other night, none of us would have met each other. The internet doesn’t help in that we are lulled into thinking that things will just happen if we hang out online. We’re meeting people right? Not really. It’s so easy to send a message or two but much harder to commit to making a date happen. If you really want to meet people, then you have to commit to a date and see who else is in the same boat (RedHotPie’s DateFinder makes this easy). Alternatively focus on one or two couples who are similar minded and will keep to a date. Either way, you need to look at swingers dating as a project, make some time for it and do what you can to make it work.

Don’t get into endless chats

You may feel the need to gauge how compatible you are with a couple before committing to a date but exchanging endless messages or getting into long chats for days will more than likely just result in both of you staying home on a Saturday night. Chatting online may seem like you’re making meaningful contact but all you’re doing is using up bandwidth. If you have to use Apps like Kik or WhatsApp then limit your chats to one or two sessions. Where possible, go the old fashioned way and trade phone numbers and (shock, horror!) call each other. If you’re worried about privacy, get a play phone or play SIM to interact with swingers. A conversation between the ladies or all four of you is a positive step towards actually meeting. Asking ‘What are you up to?’ before trading nude selfies every night isn’t. Most couples also find that people inexplicably disappear on chat Apps once the initial exchanges lose momentum. It’s that false sense of already having met (when you haven’t of course…).

Keep it social and pressure free

I think many couples are afraid of committing to dates for fear of having to play with the other party. Not true! If you’re reasonably attracted to a couple’s online profile then just bite the bullet and set a date. However, make the decision to keep it social and tell the other couple that you’d prefer not to play on the first date. Enjoy meeting them without the pressure of worrying about sex and compatibility. If you get along great, you can always change your mind but if you think you’d like to think about it, then you have that option. Of course there will be couples who are too time poor to go on a social date but that’s up to you to decide if that alone is a reason to not meet such couples. This is about what you both want out of the swingers lifestyle. If you want to meet people then it’s completely fine to do it without playing right away.

Or… Be straight-up and go for gold

On the flipside, if you are that couple who is time poor, then don’t be afraid to be upfront about your intention for fear of turning off a percentage of people. Be blunt about your desire to meet another hot couple for a great night of sex. If you write an assertive profile that clearly explains what you want, you will attract other couples who are on the exact same page. Being a confident and/or experienced swinging couple means that you know if the vibe isn’t right that you can extract yourself from the situation. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want if you know for sure that you want to cut to the case and shag. If there are couples who aren’t sure about what they want from the lifestyle then they’ll give your profile a wide berth, which isn’t a bad thing at all!

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Sexiest Self-Loving TV and Film Scenes http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/sexiest-self-loving-tv-film-scenes/ Thu, 17 Aug 2017 06:58:28 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3907 It’s more rare for a movie or TV show NOT to have a raunchy sex scene these days, they’ve kinda lost their naughty appeal. The same can’t be said for masturbation scenes, however. These sexy little gems are far more rare, and – we think – naughty. We’ve compiled a list of the sexiest self-loving [...]

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It’s more rare for a movie or TV show NOT to have a raunchy sex scene these days, they’ve kinda lost their naughty appeal. The same can’t be said for masturbation scenes, however. These sexy little gems are far more rare, and – we think – naughty. We’ve compiled a list of the sexiest self-loving TV and film scenes for your viewing pleasure. You’ll notice a lack of males on this list – that’s because male self-loving is either done creepily or hilariously on the silver screen (think There’s Something About Mary).

Sexiest Self-Loving TV and Film Scenes

Sexiest Self-Loving TV and Film Scenes

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Wonderful and Wacky Winter Warmers http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/wonderful-wacky-winter-warmers/ Thu, 15 Jun 2017 05:36:54 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3923 We’re so spoiled with beautiful weather most year round in Australia that when Winter rolls around, everyone goes into mourning and hibernates. But a little chill shouldn’t stop you from having sexy fun during the cooler months! It just means you need to get a little creative. We’ve come up with some wonderful and wacky [...]

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We’re so spoiled with beautiful weather most year round in Australia that when Winter rolls around, everyone goes into mourning and hibernates. But a little chill shouldn’t stop you from having sexy fun during the cooler months! It just means you need to get a little creative. We’ve come up with some wonderful and wacky Winter warmers to keep you playing all through the less sexy weather.

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Wonderful and Wacky Winter Warmers

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May is Masturbation Month! http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/may-is-masturbation-month/ Fri, 05 May 2017 05:58:28 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3893 May is Masturbation Month! A whole month dedicated to self-loving? We couldn’t be more stroked! Sorry, stoked. Masturbation month first became a thing in 1995. It was created by a sex shop in the US to raise awareness and show that masturbation is healthy, safe and natural. Several studies have shown that close to 100 per cent [...]

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May is Masturbation Month!

A whole month dedicated to self-loving? We couldn’t be more stroked! Sorry, stoked. Masturbation month first became a thing in 1995. It was created by a sex shop in the US to raise awareness and show that masturbation is healthy, safe and natural.

Several studies have shown that close to 100 per cent of men masturbate – hardly a shock there. For women it’s reportedly about 82 per cent, depending on age. We’re pretty sure we’re preaching to the (sexiest) choir here, but we’re gonna go ahead and talk about why you should be ‘taking matters into your own hands’ more often and share a couple of our favourite videos about masturbation.

May is Masturbation Month!

May is Masturbation Month!

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Stuff Swingers Don’t Say http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/stuff-swingers-dont-say/ Fri, 28 Apr 2017 03:58:42 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3874 It’s hard to not out yourself as swingers sometimes. There are just some things you don’t react to in the same way regular folk do. In order to not arouse suspicion, I find myself pretending to be outraged at things that I know societal norms expect me to find outrageous. Don’t get me wrong. I’m [...]

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Stuff Swingers Don't Say

Apparently their penises are really, really big.

It’s hard to not out yourself as swingers sometimes. There are just some things you don’t react to in the same way regular folk do. In order to not arouse suspicion, I find myself pretending to be outraged at things that I know societal norms expect me to find outrageous. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not cagily hiding my lifestyle but I don’t need the school mums getting wind of what I get up to on the weekends. Still, in the interest of keeping things private I end up saying stuff swingers don’t say.

These are vanilla people comments. Don’t you agree?

“The lights are definitely off during sex.”

Hmmm… I have no issue with a dark room if it’s full of naughty people playing ‘Guess Who?’.

“Who on earth wears those crotchless knickers from Bras n Things?”

*puts hands up* Seriously though, we know there are more hardcore lingerie being worn around town 😉

“My friend said she’s slept with more than twenty guys. I think she’s got a problem.”

Male or female? I don’t think we keep count do we? Or care.

“I can’t imagine why people would want to make a sex tape or take nude selfies.”

It’s fun to share.

“Porn is disgusting. I would divorce Scott if I caught him watching porn.”

Like it or hate it, we don’t judge. As long as it’s good porn.

“I had no idea stuff in Fifty Shades of Grey actually happens. I’ve lived such a sheltered life”

Yes you have.

“I wonder if it’s true what they say about black guys.”

Ever heard of ‘BBC’? And we’re not talking about UK television.

“I really didn’t like the way the waitress was flirting with Richard. He’s twice her age for Pete’s sake.”

Poor Richard. That was probably the biggest thrill he’s had since that waitress was born.

 

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Celebrities You Didn’t Know Were Gay http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/celebrities-you-didnt-know-were-gay/ Thu, 06 Apr 2017 06:14:28 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3789 Celebrities aren’t always out and proud about their sexuality – some of them prefer to keep it to themselves or even deny it before being ‘outed’ in the media. Some celebrities choose to ‘come out’ on their own terms, through awards ceremony speeches or social media. On our list of celebrities you didn’t know were [...]

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Celebrities aren’t always out and proud about their sexuality – some of them prefer to keep it to themselves or even deny it before being ‘outed’ in the media. Some celebrities choose to ‘come out’ on their own terms, through awards ceremony speeches or social media. On our list of celebrities you didn’t know were gay, are a bunch of celebrities that might shock you, and they all fit the above descriptions in one way or another.

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Celebrities You Didn’t Know Were Gay

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Real Sex in Hollywood Films http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/real-sex-in-hollywood-films/ Fri, 24 Mar 2017 08:37:06 +0000 http://www.swingersaustralia.com.au/?p=3787 You might be shocked to hear that not all celebrities are ‘faking it’ during sex scenes in movies – and no, we’re not talking about porn stars! We’re talking about mainstream actors having real sex in Hollywood films: no dry humping, no skin coloured socks and nipple covers, just real, unsimulated sex on film. Some of [...]

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You might be shocked to hear that not all celebrities are ‘faking it’ during sex scenes in movies – and no, we’re not talking about porn stars! We’re talking about mainstream actors having real sex in Hollywood films: no dry humping, no skin coloured socks and nipple covers, just real, unsimulated sex on film. Some of them might surprise you and make you want to go back and watch the film with a renewed vigour. For research purposes, of course…

Real Sex in Hollywood Films

Real Sex in Hollywood Films

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Celebrities That Used To Be Strippers

What’s better than finding out that your celeb crush used to take their clothes off for a living? On our list of Celebrities That Used To Be Strippers, there may be some names that you’ll find surprising – we certainly were shocked! At the same time, some of the names are anything but surprising…but we just had to include them in our list!

Celebrities That Used To Be Strippers

Celebrities That Used To Be Strippers

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