Complete Your Profile

This seems like a no-brainer, but you’re much more likely to have success meeting other swinging couples online if you complete your profile. Sit down with your partner together and write a detailed description of what you’re looking for – and any deal breakers of what you aren’t looking for – as well as a bit about yourselves. It’s never easy talking about yourself, so one popular style of profile writing is to write ‘about her, by him’ and ‘about him, by her’ so you’re listing each other’s star qualities. Don’t leave any drop-down sections empty and don’t use templates. They’re fine to start with if you want to check out other profiles first to see what is the norm, but make sure you fill it out asap.