How does a single girl navigate the world of swinging?
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Swinging single girls are revered for being sexual vixens who know what they want and don’t need a man to get it! Navigating the swinging scene on your own can seem like an overwhelming pursuit, although it needn’t be a scary thing. Swingers clubs and swingers party organisers are super accommodating towards single females looking to indulge in threesomes, moresomes and group play, or swingles that are simply interested in meeting like-minded sexy swinging couples. So for any single ladies out there that are curious about the lifestyle, here’s our Single Girls Swinging Guide with a few handy tips to get you on your way.
Know What You Want
Obviously a great place to start is by knowing exactly what it is that you’re looking for. The first question that you want to ask yourself is ‘who do I want to meet?’ Are you curious to try girl-on-girl action? Do you want to be the third wheel in a hot threesome? Are you wanting multiple men at once? Next, ask yourself ‘what do I want to do?’ Are you interested in just foreplay fun? Or do you want to have a no-holes barred orgy? Or something in between? Nothing tarnishes a sexy experience more quickly than regrets – so knowing your limits will help you to make sure that they aren’t broken.
Communicate Your Wants/Needs
So, you know exactly what you’re looking for? Now it’s time to let others know! Meeting people online via websites that cater to singles and swingers online dating such as RedHotPie are a great place to start, as you can have a chat online and talk about your wants and needs before meeting to determine if you’re compatible. Always be upfront and honest about what it is that you’re looking for so that you can all be sure that you’re after the same things. These kinds of sites also have listings of events and swingers clubs so you can check out what’s happening near you and explore the scene in a no-pressure group environment.
First Meets
If you’d rather meet one-one-one (or one-on-two, more accurately!), then skip the club and meet up with couples through online avenues. This will not only give you a chance to broaden your experiences in the scene, but you can make great friends that you can attend events with, or simple friends that will be open to your questions about the scene and lifestyle. Don’t be afraid to be picky, as you might come across couples that seem to view you as nothing more than a ‘tool’ to fulfil their threesome fantasy. Take your time to find a couple that you connect with online and that you feel you can trust will make you feel comfortable and are genuinely interested in your wants and needs. For first meets, choose your venue wisely – somewhere public where you can feel comfortable and test the waters of the chemistry between the three of you.
Swingers Parties
If the idea of turning up to a swinger’s party or club on your own seems a bit daunting, why not bring along a plus one? Whether they’re a regular play friend or just an open-minded close friend of yours, they may provide the perfect social buffer to help calm your nerves. make sure you check if it’s okay to come as a couple if you are bringing a male friend with you. if you’re going with a play friend, make sure you discuss rules beforehand – i.e. are you free to play alone with other people if you wish, or do you want to stick together all night? You might find that bringing a ‘tag along’ will limit your own opportunities for fun, so why not go it alone? The swinging scene is incredibly friendly and you’re sure to never be left feeling lonely, even if only a little chat with no obligation.
Mission Accomplished?
You might find that once you’ve ticked off a few fantasies, your curiosity is satiated and you’re ready to hang up the G-string for good. Or maybe you’re interested in finding someone that you can explore the scene with together, rather than continuing solo. That’s totally fine – even if you try it once and decide it’s not for you, what you got to lose by giving it a go? Either way, you’ll not regret the ‘what ifs’ of fantasies left unexplored. If you DO decide it’s for you, rest assured that with websites that cater to swingles and swinging couples and new clubs popping up often, you’re sure to find whatever it is you’re looking for – the options really are endless and there are no rules. Play however you want to play and make your own rules…Just make sure that you enter with an open-mind and a sense of adventure and you’ll have a blast!
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